How many days have you found yourself on the couch, doomscrolling through Instagram, bombarded by an endless feed of shredded bodies and fitness influencers all peddling the same message?
Itās all about getting fit and looking hot, often with just a sprinkle of wellness to avoid seeming entirely superficial.
But deep down, youāre thinking, āIs there more to exercise than just looking good?ā Of course, there is!
Now, I get it. Youāre sitting there, maybe feeling a bit lost in the sea of the new fitness trends. Last year it was CrossFit, now itās lifting heavy weights, tomorrow it will be walking on your hands while balancing a dinner table on your feet.
The overwhelm can be real. Weāve all been there, questioning the point of it all. But let me tell you something, and this is straight from the heart: exercise isnāt just about looking good. Itās about feeling good, being strong, and owning your journey, regardless of the mirrorās opinion.
If a drug out there had all the benefits of exercise, it would win a Nobel prize. Yet, so many of us exercise in the vain pursuit of looking great. Sure, looking great is important to a lot of people. It can help us gain self-confidence in the world.

The Invisible Benefit ToĀ Exercise
Exercise is not a cure-all for mental health ailments. If you have crippling anxiety, going for a run wonāt make it go away. However, exercise can help take the edge off of everything.
I like to think of exercise as helping by about 10%. Itās not going to be a cure-all for mental health issues but it may help clear out your mind to make better decisions.
Thereās been evidence that exercise can help reduce depression even for those with a higher genetic predisposition to the condition. It showed that 35 minutes of exercise each day could help reduce the risk of depression.
Now if you suffer from depression, exercise and donāt see the benefits, there are still many more benefits to exercise that can help.
Physical Health
Become immortal or surf on sharks while juggling chainsaws? Exercise canāt do those things, but what it can do is significantly lower your risk of all-cause mortality.
We are all going to die someday. That is a fact. But exercise can help add value to the quality of your life in those years.
I donāt want my body to degenerate from lack of use. If my body degenerates, itās going to be on my terms.
No matter what your age is, itās not too late for you. A study reported in the Journal of the American Medical Associationshowed that those who went from unfit to fit in 5 years had a reduction in their mortality risk of 44%.
If you think itās too late for you, itās not. You can still turn things around.
Exercise Your Brain andĀ Body
Do you ever feel stuck on a problem in your life but you donāt know how to fix it? Anytime I feel this way, I go for a run and let my mind think.
I look at it as a way to let my brain decompress like giving a computer some time to update.
When you exercise, your body pumps more oxygen and nutrients into your brain. It helps release the endorphins that can change the way you think and process information.
This isnāt just for the short term either. A study from the University of California, Irvine, found that a single workout can improve your ability to learn new motor skills.
Next time youāre trying to learn something new, go out for a light exercise to break up the day. I wouldnāt recommend taking 4 scoops of pre-workout and doing back-to-back Crossfit sessions. That may burn you out a little bit. Take it easy and do something that you know youāll still have the energy to think about when you get back. It will add a boost.

Spice Up The Bedroom FromĀ Exercise
Alright, letās get to the good stuff. For men, exercise has shown to be as effective as Viagra.
It makes sense. Exercise boosts blood flow, strengthens the heart and muscles and better circulation leads to better sexual function.
For women, improved blood flow also enhances arousal and sensitivity.
I know this article is about the benefits of exercise OTHER than looking sexy AF but the effect of looking AND feeling better is undeniable in the confidence factor.
Looking great all the time isnāt a realistic standard but feeling better about yourself can be.
The Dreams Youāll NeverĀ Forget
When I exercise hard enough that I fall asleep right away, itās a great day.
Thereās nothing fun about tossing and turning all night. Exercise can be an antidote for that.
One of the key factors to sleep is a change in your bodyās core body temperature as stated in Matthew Walkerās book, Why We Sleep. Exercise causes changes in your bodyās temperature and when itās time to relax, it can help you indicate to your body that it is now time to rest.
A good night of sleep requires you to check the boxes in many of the sections that I wrote about above. If youāre anxious, you probably wonāt get good sleep. If youāre in poor physical health, you probably wonāt get good sleep.
Sleep is one of the most essential things that we can do for recovery for the brain and body. Making sure that we get enough of it is a pillar for our health and exercise is one avenue to make sure we get the best quality as well.

Connect and Thrive ThroughĀ Exercise
Iām sure thereās been a time or two in all our lives where we have felt alone. I know I certainly have.
When gyms closed down during COVID, one of the things that I missed the most was going to a kettlebell gym that was a few miles away from me.
Whether itās participating in an intramural sport, a yoga class, or CrossFit, you can undoubtedly build social camaraderie with fellow participants. Itās a great way to make some new friends and get into great shape.
Being around people who have similar goals as you can be inspiring. If you have a little bit of the competition gene, youāll also want to outdo them as well. Pushing each other in a fun and healthy way builds connections with people.
Many years ago, I got into doing GoRuck Challenges. Theyāre these grueling 12-hour rucks that are team events and the entire point of them is to build a camaraderie and learn to work well as a team.
I will say, that it works. Some of the people that I only knew for those 12 hours, I feel like I still have a connection with from doing that event. Itās a special feeling when you accomplish something difficult with someone.
Remember YourĀ Why
Looking great can be a benefit of exercise but letās face it, we are not going to look young and sexy forever. Eventually looks fade with everyone.
However, exercise offers more than whatās depicted in social media posts; itās about building relationships and nurturing the person underneath, who is striving for improvement beyond mere physical appearance. Thereās a person underneath who is trying to better themselves in more ways than the physical output we perceive.
We donāt need to physically exert ourselves to stay alive anymore but we need to exercise and feel alive.
Whether itās your first day in the gym or your ten-thousandth, remember that youāre doing this for more than just six-pack abs and gym selfies. Youāre doing this to build a better version of yourself.
Accomplishing your goals is a lot easier when you set yourself up for the week. Thatās why I started the Setup Sunday Newsletter at Running Relentless. Every Sunday morning I will send out an email on how I am setting myself up for the week and questions you should ask yourself on how you can set yourself up.




I often like to think of my brain as being part of my body. Other times not.